I have a fortunate friend. He has achieved wealth and freedom. Our discussions center around the self interests of others. Whether they are politician, corporate executive or priest all their behaviors can be traced to self enrichment. I did not want to accept this perspective; for it leaves the world cold and heartless. But as I live I see others conforming to this principle. And most interesting, it must be true for me.

It takes an adjustment to accept that your generous principles might not be so selfless. For these beliefs give comfort in having virtue and it advertises trustworthiness. Friendships can be established on different foundations. A neighbor is a convenient associate to collaborate on the issues of residency. Friends can run the gamut from relieving loneliness to supporting your life. Friendships with the opposite sex whether casual or committed are of no exemption

Long term relationship can supply enough ammunition to shoot down any romance when friendly competition shows its heads. I was always bewildered by the response of a lover until I accepted it was not about me but what is happening in her life. Living under past allusions does not make love genuine but with this knowledge it now possible to fulfill needs and receive fulfillment for you

In finding peace in life it requires mastery of seeming contradiction of simplicity and complexity. Simplicity in the principles involved and complexity is accomplishing their directives.